Are u satisfy about your self ? your behavior?are u feel comfortable about your way in speaking ,moving,laughing ......etc?actully i asked my self these questions and the answer was "NO" . I AM NOY SATISFY ABOUT MY SELF cause sometime i fell that iam acting . for example :i feel comfortable when i laugh with loude voice and my laughing voice like hicc-up its look strang but i like it but when i laugh like that my parents and also my friends say dont laugh like that you are not a child so i feel that i must watch out every action i do and that mke me look like blastk barbi some time i feel i want to be very simple and do what i what i want to do but sometime i think that they are right i shouldnt do every thing i want without thinking because iam not living a lone and because i am a girl so i feel puzzeled should i do what i want to do even it looked unfamiliar or what the other people want me to do because it seems to be right? ya ret 7d y3brny w y3l2
Sunday, October 28, 2007
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EIH MAWDOO3 BECAUSE I'M A GIRL DAAAH!!!! :D :D
Ana geet 3and di we msh adra akammel!!! Momken afham eih 3elaquet u being a girl be dah?!!! :D
Eih ya benty 3o2ad el mogtama3 elle enty 3aysha fiha di?! Ur being a girl shouldn't stop you from acting normal and being who you want to be.
Eih el nass el me3a22ada di?! :P
Welcome to eastren-societies! Wich deals with everything from only one point of view.
Here we have two issues, the way I see myself and the way people see me.
As for here and now. You have the right to do whatever you want with no limitations at all (unless it has something to do with politics ;) and people will just do/talk about you the way they want! it's just so wrong and un-civilised!
I talk, you talk, we discuss, I respect you, you respect me, and the best will be agreed on and done :D simple!
In eastren/closed society YOU have to live your life as the people would like you to live! And that's for someone like me is un-acceptable. I need to feel free so I can do my job better. I need to feel secured, feel accepted as the way I am :D
All these are simple human needs but I can't have them. So, I deal with the outside world in way of "balance"; I give u what u need and u too help me with my needs. The world need a "decent" figure of me then fine, I'll try (I won't fake it and I just promise you that I'll do my best, for my self) but I also need to feel that I'm accepted. If you didn't accept me as a bieng, I won't do my work efficiently, I won't feel good about myself which will make more and more problems.
Who wants problems?
If I already feel the satisfation from my own then I need to re-check. if I'm still "perfect" then something is wrong (no body is perfect). If there are little issues and problems i try to fix them in a way. If not then I have a serious issue which is ignorance:D
You can't be good in everything all the time. Even if you are a well rounded character and good in lot of stuff. You will have your mistakes whatever what you do :D you are not a God.
On the other hand I don't care about a society who acuse me of something I'm not (like bieng a nerd cause i wear glasses, or bieng a dare-devil who is so bad cause i smoke... whatever, lot more examples i can't count).
Pre-judging is something has to be delt with, too bad it's so common that you rarely meet someone who don't! All we have to do is open our minds to accept our diffrances, and be paitance to know enough about what's going on and who is you dealing with, How about that? :D
Moh'd enta mabtezha2sh men ketabet kol dah?! :S :S
ha ha ha... just keep writing, writing, writing *yawn* :P
tyb seeb el post beta3 Nihal kefaya we 2olli ra2yak fel pics abl mamshy :P :P
lool, ana barod 3ala kol 7aga :D.. mafeesh mawdoo3 ma radetesh 3aleeh (ela iza kont ma 2artoosh fa da harood 3aleeh soon) edoony forsa shewaya! 7ad tany 3'eer ana we Malak yerod, ye comment, yeshta3'al shewaya :D
Nihal! GREAT JOB! eb3aty mawdoo3 tany, comment 3ala el comments law fi 7aga mesh 3agabky... same to u all... el old posts momken nelqy nazra 3aleeha (mawdoo3 el 3asal el eswed da shdeed!) ya3ny et7rako shewaya :D e3melo Zeetah! 3ayez dawsha! :P
i once heard a proverb yosf el mawdo3 da "man can do no more than he can do" y3ny maynf3sh el wa7d yfdl yfakr f el nas 3ala tol l2n el nas 2sln bttkalm 3akal 3ala btal y3ny law el wa7d law m7afz 3ala tsrofato 7y2olo 2no motaklf w 5an2a w law kan 3ala tb3to 7y2olo over so el kalam mawgod mawogod so yb2a kol wa7d y3ml 2ly yray7o
TOTALY RIGHT! bas bardo nerga3 we ne2ool fi 7edood el ma32ool :D
Nothing is absolute in this world except one which is "God", so if we balance everything else you will have the happiest life and the best ending. Absolute freedom means Anarchy and Chaos. Same goes the absolute order cause some kind of a mechanic and less emotinal civilisation!
Balance is the key here =)
Hey Nehal!
I know it's a late reply, but i was a little bit busy (preparin for ur exam :P) lol!
Anyway, bossy ya setty b2a ...
YES, we do live in a patriarchal society which means that our culture is male-dominated. However, this does not mean at all that men should just have all the rights and women should suffer in consequence! Ughh!
You know what's happening? Women are just accepting to be marginalized in a way. In other words, most of them believe what our cunning society is acting upon; that men should dominate, have more rights, and be respected the way they other. Although, if u just have a closer look you will realize that it's all fake! (balash netla3 bara el mawdoo3 w netkalem msn vs. women ...that'll need another TOPIC :D)
Now u know that quote " It's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you are not?" This quote's message gives you an answer to the conflict within you. You feel comfortable doing particular things that, say for example, 90% of the people around you find wrong ...BUT it's ur own choice, ur own life ...as long as ur not hurting anyone then go for it ...and most importantly, as long as u know ur not crossing the limits of ur religion tab3an!
The thing is that "right" and "wrong" are so relative ... what u find wrong may be right for others, and vice versa. So, who is the judge now? Who evaluates the matter. Whatever it is, it should be between you and God, and whoever repects ur actions 2ahlan wasahlan, whoever does not bardo 2ahlan wasahlan (or TOZ!) LOL
Be urself cuz u'll never be able to live in a body or a spirt that's not urs! Acting is not that easy. Yes, u may succeed to deceive people one, twice or thrice, but believe me a time will come when u'll just break down and won;t be able to handle it anymore! :)
3rfa people are not holding cameras, tryin to zoom in into ur life... Even if they're aganist ur actions, they'll not hold it for you forever ... they have their own lives too!! W ba3dien look deeper, see who is holding the real camera and even zooming in bgad? It's God ... don't you think that we waste so much time worrying about how people will think of us and we just forget if God is going to negatively or positvely judge our actions??
:)
WOW! miss Lina, yor comment is another topic by it self! :D
First Men Vs. Women, and yeah how people here are so dump and they can't open there minds to think of something diffrent or new.
What's right and what's wrong, and what is our standards.
How to deal with criticism (which most people think they are God's gift to humanity and you are the King of Demons himself lool!) The good news is; they just leave you alone after a while cause they want something new to talk about :D
AWESOME! =))
thx miss lina u r totally right we still have male domination and as i said before about tpeople comments about others that people like taling to much -3amal 3ala btal- and they will talk about u even u do nothing its our socity sickness talking , talking and talking u always says keep writing,writing and writing but the people around us keep talking ,talking and talking
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